𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐬𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐨 𝐟𝐚𝐦𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐚𝐫 𝐭𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐢𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐚𝐜𝐫𝐨𝐬𝐬 𝐦𝐲 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐟𝐢𝐥𝐞: “Do it, stop being emotional, take back control, move, and don’t get stuck!” I was “in control” for half of my life, using personal influence. It worked out until I collapsed.

Self-control is like a limited energy source. When it's low, we struggle with negativity, feel vulnerable, and may avoid challenges and lose motivation. This impacts decision-making and performance. When drained, we dodge conflicts, polarise worldviews, and limit creativity. However, we are forced to focus on self-control based on the popular belief that "where attention goes, energy flows," increasing the dose of it towards what we think is important for us.

As the founder, doctoral researcher, and award-winning author I advocate for the significance of emotions in both personal and professional life. A few years ago, I was asked a million-dollar question that changed my life: what was one thing that allowed you to have all life success and which you want to share with others?

Answering this powerful question, today I share with you what happens if we embrace emotions, the wellspring of our vitality, rather than suppress or control them depleting our essence. By fostering emotional connections, we are meant to feel, know, and understand more, transform faster, and utilize more parts of our brain. While not everyone is born into wealth, many achieve financial freedom. I discovered the human capacity tied to emotions that guides us towards freedom rather than ongoing self-control. Furthermore, we can treat it as any other asset in our lives, fostering increased self-worth, self-regulation, emotional vitality, empathy, sensitivity, resilience, inclusiveness, and a positive outlook on life. 𝐈 𝐢𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐭𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐭𝐨 𝐨𝐰𝐧, 𝐠𝐫𝐨𝐰, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐩𝐩𝐥𝐲 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐂𝐚𝐩𝐢𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐤.

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮’𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲, 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝟑 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐈 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐩 𝐲𝐨𝐮:

1. The Gift of Sensitivity book saves your precious time summarising 8 years of research & personal journey for extraordinary faculties such as creativity, originality, innovation, intuition, flexibility, and inclusiveness; 2. The Emotional Capital Newsletter informs you about steps on the journey for your emotional potential; 3. Notes of Sensitive Resurgent Practical Guide promotes you sharing your story and/or questions. https://elenavamber.com

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